You begin to see why a microkernel that needs to be bounced more often than, say, Linux, which is not a microkernel, begins to lose some of the appeal of having a microkernel in the first place.
(Aside: Mac OS X is based on Mach, but practically all of the stuff applications see is provided by a single server which (to the best of my knowledge) can't be restarted without taking down the whole system. It's a hybrid design.)
Also, just to confirm a stereotype, do you use Windows for your servers?