So right now the situation is already changing, and rapidly so. Looking two weeks ahead I'd say that the chances that any non-emergency surgeries will be cancelled are much higher than today.
New York is but one example of the same pattern that you see happening over and over again and with an exponential spread (the early stages of any pandemic) two weeks is a very long time.
I don't think that's right. There is no need for you to speculate in any case when that person is just sharing their worries. There's no upside.
Because every operation has a chance of developing complications if there is no ICU capacity available the operations will be cancelled regardless of whether or not the operation itself is a risky one.
Also, this being a forum and the person making their statement in this forum I feel that I'm totally free to speculate. Forum participation invites speculation, and in this case my speculation is backed up by local experience. If that is not the kind of message you want to be passed on then fine but that's your opinion, which in this case you are more than welcome to spout as long as you realize that you have just as much right to do so as I do.
Oh, and in case you want a citation to go with this then maybe this will help you:
Dutch:
https://www.omroepbrabant.nl/nieuws/3171310/Code-rood-in-de-...
Our medical situation, that is say that of the United States, is much worse than that of italy and it is so by design. That is an objective fact even though it’s not pleasant to think about. What makes you think we will be better off than Italy, even though we are in a weaker medical position? My argument is that panic is warrented.
I am talking about it being rude to tell a person who needs a surgery, potentially for an issue that threatens their life, that they will not get it, when you don't actually know. It's just basic decency.
Basic decency is to assume that people can think for themselves and do not need to be treated like toddlers with feel good lies and cotton balls.
I would have written what you said this way: "you should reach out to your doctor. In my neighborhood a lot of surgeries have been getting cancelled." It is not one whit less truthful or honest than your comment, but it is more sensitive, at least to my ear.
Your approach to this thread calls to mind an imaginary surgeon who leaves the OR and tells the family, "sorry, he's dead." Nothing wrong with that bedside manner, is there? No need to treat them like toddlers.
I'm finished with this. I've said my piece and you disagree. Ah, well.
Your strawman is ignored.
The trauma hospital a few blocks from me has barricaded the entrances, and erected a giant tent as an ward for sick people.
he said his expected surgery is urgent.
you inserted the word emergency.
it's hard to follow an argument that proceeds this way.
And I will call Monday morning to see if they expect there to be a problem.