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Lots of (now) very-well known people (literally thousands) had a difficult time finding their way before their 30s. This is the oldest story in the world.

Find a source of income that will allow you time to explore new possibilities - outside of school. There's a whole world out there. There are countless ways to live that you haven't heard of yet, or had time to consider. You can't 'objectively' be a failure ... unless you fail yourself.

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Great points. I know people in there 40s and 50s who are still lost.

I had one friend who started uni and decided they did not know what they wanted, worked at a hotel for 4 years and then went back.

I also have known many many people who struggled for direction in the 18 -24 year range. Many joined the military for a few years, and most, not all, like 85%, had a good handle on life. Several have been very successful.

Thanks for you piece of advice.

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