>> The problem is more insidious, though; the way that we build our settlements has deep implications for our civic life, our communities, our patterns of interaction, the relationships we form, the company we keep, and ultimately, the purpose and meaning we find in our lives.

I've been waiting for this view to be shared by anyone else. I've been in the US for 20 years, since I was 11 years old.

Midwest -> West Coast -> Midwest.

In the Midwest, it's hard to live anywhere but suburbia. Five years in California, and the best time I had was two years in a 300 sq ft in-law apartment in Berkeley, squashed in between friendly neighbors, cousins and frequent visitors.

I've lived in India, China and traveled many other developing nations including Brazil and parts of Africa. The stark difference to mental and emotional well-being is scary. At this time, I don't know if the conveniences of American life are worth the hit.

Suburbia is harmful to mental and emotional well-being and it's unavoidable for the vast majority of Americans.