A critical mass of people will continue thinking it's less serious than the flu (these retracted studies not helping it) until it gets so bad that it becomes impossible (e.g. everyone knows someone they really care about who died). That's when proper lockdowns are politically possible.
And we should be cautious about even the idea that they've been successful; people used to believe Japan and Signapore had contained it too.
It's not much of a mystery. The lockdown was much more complete, and was accompanied by additional measures to separate and quarantine sick people. There message wasn't, "Stay home if you're sick (and infect your families, and maybe your neighbors too)." Sick people quarantined apart from their families. People went door to door to measure temperatures. Food was delivered to neighborhoods, so that people didn't have to go out at all. That's how they brought the number of active cases to a low, manageable number.
Now, they have extensive testing, and they use cell phone data to assist contact tracing.
Basically, what's needed is a capacity for organization and discipline that seems lacking in many countries that are struggling.
Once you reach a low overall case count, you can ease measures to target R ~ 1.
The alternative, letting the epidemic burn through the population, means sacrificing ~0.5% of the population.
Given the steady pace of ~30k new confirmed cases per day in the US, R has not been suppressed enough. Yet governors are talking about easing restrictions...