I think I can break down your post into individual arguments, but just know I don't entirely disagree with your assessment, its just that I think your conclusion is far too pessimistic.
> I don't think just giving more people access to internet will be enough to unify fragmented species.
Economic inclusion is the reason I believe it has the greatest potential, primarily on-boarding those that have been excluded from the current economic system. Read this [1] and tell me you don't see the downside to marginalizing such a large segment of the World's population and their Human Capital and how the rest of the World suffers as a result.
Education via MOOCs and other online avenues is what scales the most, thus having Educational resources available to them is critical, and for that you will need, among other things, Global connectivity.
Its sobering to think that because of China's soft-power Imperialism certain parts of Africa have greater access to 4g than they do running water is a reality, but this has to be accepted and it can serve as a foundation to build better standards of living and Education alike.
Simply dumping equipment is not sufficient, nor is a blank check from NGOs I agree; luckily the West has a long History of having people who will put themselves in harm's way (Doctors without borders) to help those less fortunate that can act as leaders to teach them how to replicate these models and build their own infrastructure to suit their environment and address the problems they encounter. Justin Wren's work [2] is an awesome example, albeit perilous in its own way, of what can happen when this pans out.
> Just look at anti-vaxers and 5G conspirationists. They have access to all the information they want.
I agree this an a-symmetric battle, and they seem to be hyper-focused on specious and superfluous positions, based on outright fallacious arguments to justify their positions, but ultimately I'd rather have them able to make that choice than to rob them of their agency if given a choice. 5g conspiracies are insipid, however, I believe anti-vax'ing parents should be liable for any damages or costs associated to exposing their children and anyone else they infect in arbitration that extends to punitive and well as financial damages.
The court system may currently be 'responsible' for that role in Society, but I'm not averse to exploring other ideas that can be mediated.
1: https://foreignpolicy.com/2011/10/28/the-shadow-superpower/
2: https://fightfortheforgotten.org/