You must now create a $75 a month service for people like yourself who want to know when an email of theirs has been burned. Use his list to sell yours.
You can do this in gmail with filters, unless I'm missing something about the use case.
I use this service a lot.
Anything about them you mislike?
(I think it is also an RFC standard, not just gmail, but don't quote me on this).
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