You can do this without synchronization by exploiting the fact that all "lanes" of a SIMD vector execute simultaneously, e.g. by doing vector scatters "to the left" and then "to the right" those writes will not race with each other, and don't require locks or atomics.
Whether pull or push is faster heavily depends on the algorithm - there is no silver bullet here. To write efficient parallel algorithms you need to know how to do both.
The author only appears to know how to do pull (if that's wrong, they didn't really do push any justice in the article), so from their POV push just doesn't work.
The article does show something very important though: pull does give you reasonable performance and is quite easy to reason about and get right. In contrast, push is quite hard due to the write-write data-races the author mentions, so I don't blame the author from arriving at their conclusion that one should always do pull. It might not always be true, but it is definitely a safe place to start, particularly if you aren't super familiar with the algorithm yet and don't know how or if push would work well.
For example, many of the convolutions that neural networks use are actually implemented using the "push" approach because that's more efficient, and they are quite similar to what the blog post author is doing.