Could a randomness machine help you fight procrastination?
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I try to find better reasons why I do the things that I do - why isn't it exciting right now? I try to check my emotions - is something bothering me so I flee to Instagram? I actively try to enjoy small pauses to reflect on what I just did, read or learned, how to generalize, memorize and improve it.
And I want to smell the flowers along the way, just like all humans have done before us.
What do you do when you know what's bothering you, but it's not something you can really fix?
I know why I'm stressed, but the dishes still need to be cleaned.
My stress level has reduced.
The other thing is, at least i've found anyway, i've usually been wrong about whatever i've worried about, either the severity of my worries were excessive or I ended up being blindsided by something totally different than what I was actually worried about.
That being said, it's hard, I still find myself overwhelmed by things I'm worried about, so that's when I follow what UweSchmidt said and focus on hobbies and activities and stuff. But, i've found that can be kind of dangerous because, at least, me personally i end up becoming focused on these things to the detriment of the rest of my life and I still end up not washing the dishes and stuff.
If I have to go into a situation: "This is hard. This is scary. This is worth it and I am stronger than I feel."
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If I really have no power over it: "This is hard. This is scary. This too shall pass and I am stronger than I feel." I find repeating the Litany against Fear to help too.
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Sometimes I choose to distract one half of my working memory. Doing the dishes only requires visuo-spacial working memory, so I'll put on a non-mathematical podcast or call a friend.
https://www.simplypsychology.org/working%20memory.html?fbcli...
My emotions are untrustworthy. If I follow them blindly I will end up addicted to dopamine and simultaneously depressed.
There's nothing wrong with manufacturing your own carrots and whips to help you get somewhere you want to be.
It was either an unhealthy desire(fear?) for excellency, or social anxiety, or maybe a fantasy that going deeper would lead to a better life but it's not.
I now do simple things, and progress slowly on stuff I like. If it's not a simple cool feeling inside I drop it.
But if you're able to do that, I think what it amounts to is that you don't have it so bad. For someone suffering much more from procrastination, I'd like to caution against thinking “I ought not to need convoluted schemes; I should be able to fix my procrastination by just checking my emotions…” etc. Try everything, do whatever helps. To use your example, if I know it would be good for me to do X but it's too hard and I'll go check Instagram instead, then despite knowing that it would be good for me to reflect about my emotions… that too may be too hard and I'll go check Instagram instead too.
I'm speaking from experience: a long time ago I had tried blocking my usual distraction sites except at certain times of day/week, then that method somehow stopped working for me, also at some point I guess I started thinking I ought not to do it — but after starting to do it again last week (more or less: trying not to beat myself up for the times I bypassed it), I'm now able to do things like journaling to check in with my emotions when I notice myself procrastinating, etc. Every bit helps.
Yes the reason for procrastination can often be some kind of "not wanting to do it", but it can also be perfectionism (wanting it too much / to do it to a very high standard), counterproductive habits/addictions, and it turns out on reflection (checking in with emotions), that it is even possible to be "uncomfortably excited" and not know how to handle that discomfort. Whether and how much you procrastinate is a function of both your motivation and your basic efficacy (I guess "executive dysfunction" is a clinical version of this problem) -- or to put it another way, it's a function of not just "value" but also "expectancy" and "impulsiveness" in the procrastination equation (see e.g. https://alexvermeer.com/getmotivated/), and it's OK (and good!) to try addressing in whatever order, trying any possible solution and experimenting until you find what works for you.
My intention with my previous comment was simply to highlight that there are degrees of procrastination, and to warn those who may need it against avoiding solutions that may help them (out of "this isn't the ideal way" perfectionism). It was not my intention to go into detail about myself, but I've done that here (thanks to your well-meant advice and) to make the point again.
1. "I ought not to need convoluted schemes" is often an unhealthy thought. We are humans. We build tools to care for each other. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_M._Spangler#Invention_of...
2. Part of the systems we build are the metaphors and self-talk which acts as software in our own minds. But if you've grown up being distracted, you've grown up with people expressing how disappointed they are in you. It is worth questioning if you're taking that external narrative and trying to use it to motivate you...because it may just be pushing you not to predict[1] your ability to succeed. There may be much more effective software to install.
https://slatestarcodex.com/2017/09/12/toward-a-predictive-th...
1. Take care of my health: sleep, exercise, food, medication, socially-bonding conversation.
2. Connect to Why -- That is why a good Product Manager so valuable for programming and a clear picture of my audience curiosity so valuable for writing.
3. Recognize signs of success -- Thats what makes Test-Driven Development so valuable for programming and Question Driven Drafting so valuable for writing.
4. Get into rhythm which balances focus and exploratory de-focus -- The pomodoro technique is useful here. Also, talking with Test Engineers.
I like what Jocko Willink says; Accountability is a crutch: useful to notice and endure a problem, but something you should then you should then drive you to find the cause of the problem and incorporate a fix. That fix is part of building your personal discipline. I think the mistake a lot of people make with discipline is that they imagine it harshly -- like a drill sergeant whipping you into shape. But whips only make sense to enslave someone to do something they don't want to do. Healthy discipline feels like something effortful which nurtures you.
Your mind is a garden of your own
to terrace and irrigate,
to plant and to graft,
to water and weed and repair,
-- and yes, to artificially fertilize if needed --
so that whatever the weather,
out of your impulses
will grow the actions which bear fruit
according to what you truly value.Step 1: Ask a question.
Step 2: Give the first answer that comes to mind, including "I don't know."
Step 3: Ask a follow-up question like "how do you know that?" or "what makes this hard to know?" or "really? Why is that?" or "why does that matter?"
Step 4: Answer it
and just keep going like this for 20 minutes until you've gotten used to typing and have started to picture an audience that is curious about the topic.
I've only used it for nonfiction, but I imagine that it could work for fiction too if you put a video of a campfire on.
It does seem a bit clinical but it's one of the few ways we have of communicating with our autonomic systems. Repeated behaviour, association, physical stimulus, and diet. It makes for a crude language but it's a pretty decent safeguard against half-baked meddling.
How long you been doing it?
"Oh, about 2 weeks"
I'm guilty of the same thing. We probably all are. But it makes me all this stuff with a sceptical eye.
This stresses me out. Is there something wrong with me? Do I have some problem with my “internal authority”? Maybe bucking it so many times and so often is contributing to its influence on me...
When you're addicted to novelty, mechanical approaches like pomodoro or the one described in this post aren't good long-term solutions. I would suggest checking out more mindfulness-based approaches.
Here's my current recipe:
1. Notice when I feel the pull of a distraction. 2. Stop what I'm doing. Literally stop everything for as long as I need to clear my mind. This usually takes about 15 seconds, but sometimes it takes more like 10 minutes. This part is really hard -- when I started doing it, I would feel guilty for "wasting time", even though getting distracted often meant 20 minutes, an hour, or even more completely wasted, and in the worst, most guilt-inducing way. 3. Once my mind is clear, ask myself this question: "What do I truly _want_ to do with this moment of my life?" 4. Do that thing.
If I want to cruise Reddit for half an hour, I'll cruise Reddit for half an hour, and feel good about it. If I want to go back to my original task -- that's great. If I want to call up my dad and see how he's doing, or write a nice note to my wife, that's even better.
Never do anything you don't want to do. It's the _guilt_ that's unhealthy and addicting. Do what you _want_ to do -- and that doesn't have to look like being a programmer/working prodigy all the time.
I regularly fail at this, but over the past year, I've gotten better. And I promise you can, too.
Learn to be happy, and you'll be more productive :)
It's a good point that a lot of the things that catch me have some promise of making me more powerful (intellectually, materially, socially, etc.) and along that path it is an intense ride of novelty. Besides constant novelty, have you noticed any other similarities amongst the areas that hook you?
They're difficult. Challenging.
And it's incredible what an effect such a small gesture of respect has. On any other site I'd have CTRL-W'd such a long-winded explanation much earlier.
The TL;DR of the article - Adding randomized rewards to the Pomodoro technique by randomizing what fun/distrating thing you'll do during your break, later mixing in other "healthy" activities in with the "fun" stuff.
That all made me click the "Accept" button rather than "Decline" which I usually do when given a choice.
Loved that the very first sentence gave the reader the choice to decline. Perhaps that made me read the rest of it, or maybe I was already biased (unlikely, but possible) based on the comment here I had read in its praise.
I do standing desk coding for 1 pomodoro, then exercises (alternating pushups, squats, wall sits, mountain climbers, jumping jacks) during the 4 of the 5min breaks. This way I can intermittently break a sweat and find time to exercise during the day.
Much like https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QqoSyqckqA but spread across working hours.
http://markforster.squarespace.com/blog/2014/1/22/random-tim...
Patch in a bell into AFL for everytime it finds a crash. Maybe even a generic function I can throw at the end of main so when my code builds and runs I'll get that audio stimulation.
If you procrastinate, you lack discipline. No technology can change or give you discipline. You have to work on it and you can't let yourself say no, it's a mindset.
I don't believe "discipline" is a useful concept for everyone. We all have different brains and different circumstances. Some are motivated by discipline and duty, others by novelty and randomness. To an extent most of us can exert our will to build more of one side or the other, but it's much more efficient to exploit our supposed weaknesses at the same time as we build our strengths.
I feel like I've seen examples of the "discipline" crowd and let's call it the "gamification" crowd preaching their one true way, so it's clear that both seem to work for some people, and maybe we can all try to apply some of each to solving problems of motivation and procrastination. But speaking for myself, discipline is rarely the tool that works for me, and it's just that after some amount of waiting I suddenly feel ready to take on whatever it was I was delaying. I think that some kind of randomness might actually help if I can summon the discipline to do just one thing if I don't yet know what it is (I haven't read the article yet so I don't know if what they describe is similar to what I've been noodling on the back burner of ideas).
A better way is to only do what you actually, really want to be doing, but
- most of us don't always have that luxury
- often we would like to have something done while not really wanting to do
- fear of failure, fear of success etc can make us procrastinate even on things we actually want to do.
If you don't believe that the shape of technology can change people's behavior....
https://www.joelonsoftware.com/2001/10/24/user-interface-des...
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As someone whose entire profession is meticulously-crafting metaphors to enable organizations to better interpret and act on information, I think discipline itself is a thing you craft. Discipline is a mental techne. You can design what ideas and habits you want to try to plant in your brain.
Your mind is a garden of your own
to terrace and irrigate,
to plant and to graft,
to water and weed and repair,
-- and yes, to artificially fertilize if needed --
so that whatever the weather,
out of your impulses
will grow the actions which bear fruit
according to what you truly value.
Every push-up and pomodoro is weeding the garden.