Are people who say that "every tool has qualities, therefore they're all fine" always trying to say that it does not matter what tool you use? If they are worth their salt, they will choose tool A if tool A works and is "better" than B, but will not assume B is inheritable inferior in all projects. The whole idea is to recognize the qualities of tools and asking yourself if you can really use them.
Suggesting that one tool is always better enables a mindset similar to that in manifest destiny ("[God told us] our culture is better than yours, so be like us").
I'm not saying you can not be "gray" and "wrong", but being gray is not unconditionally wrong and certainly does not deserve to be called "poison".