I don't think there is another notable, proven, open source clustered manager of both actual VMs and containers. OpenNebula might be the closest: https://opennebula.io/get-your-hands-on-v-5-8-edge/
LXD is similar to proxmox if you only need containers, and pretty slick. They use their own distributed version of sqlite to propagate state, so it's much simpler than proxmox.