Apple's APIs for macOS and iOS are simply better than those provided by either Microsoft (for Windows), Google (for Android), etc. Apple's APIs are, for the most part, very well-thought-out; their engineers have put together fantastic layers in the operating system and its UI components. The primary reason so many apps perform poorly on Apple platforms is because those apps were developed using 3rd party cross-platform tools (eg. Electron, or making an iOS app with webviews rather than native elements).
Developers who make efficient use of Apple's APIs, and who spend time to reduce their backend response time on remote API calls, will always produce an amazing product. The best example I can think of off the top of my head is the Apollo app for Reddit on iOS; it is coded with 100% native platform APIs, with no slow cross-platform garbage. It's such a breath of fresh air to witness.