I've only ever heard people complaining that people misunderstand the first amendment. I've yet to see someone say they believe the first amendment governs and protects against private censorship.
However, I constantly see people conflating the concept of free speech and the first amendment. Free speech is an ideological principle, not a law.
If you read the first section of the EO it is clear that they are attempting to make an argument that Twitter, by moderating/curating/screening, is no longer protected by section 230, as defined by the famous 90s court cases regarding prodigy, aol, and compuserve. [0] [1]
Spurious argument or not you are mischaracterizing the situation.
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stratton_Oakmont,_Inc._v._Prod....
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zeran_v._America_Online,_Inc.