And taking a step back I think many people in frontend confuse React for a jQuery alternative, the thing you whip up a web project with by default, but it really isn't. That there is a component ecosystem might suggest its a jQuery alternative, but they really are for different scales of application programming.
I think it's this idea most harmful about React adoption and to be fair React marketing hasn't exactly said otherwise. So we get web pages with massive JS deps cause most people are probably using React for a productive developer experience rather than a fitting use case that actually justifies resorting to a virtual DOM model for applying view state, and yet React sold itself on "we probably know better than you about efficient DOM updates". That's true if you have lots of Juniors hanging around.