Also, scanning 1 item while holding two of it in your hand.
I've also walked out of Lowes with a couple dollars in random hardware in my pocket before. Went in for some screws so didn't grab a cart, decided to pick up some other stuff since I was there, and stuffed them in my pocket temporarily. Forgot about them during checkout. I actually went back and paid for those though because I felt like such an idiot about it.
Technically it's your kids stealing, but since you are responsible for their actions, it's on you.
When this happens to me I usually let them know the next time I'm at that store (or if I discover it in the parking lot I go back in). Sometimes they charge me for it, usually they just say thanks for being honest.
Often the staff look like they are on autopilot and aren't reading anything and just going through their shift on muscle memory so I imagine this happens a lot. Is it stealing if you tried to pay but the staff did something on the machine and it didn't charge you? I don't know.