Steam: you can redeem keys purchased from other stores, install apps from other stores, and they don’t mandate using their system for in app purchases
eBay: do they have any policies like this? I haven’t heard much about them or made an eBat purchase in a decade.
Amazon Marketplace: There actually is a strong argument here that they capture so much of the market that opting out is not an option. This is very similar and already under much scrutiny.
Game Console: Also very similar to this. I expect they will lobby hard on Apples side for that reason.