What is it that offends you about the terms, and why? Honest question, as I've never spoken to anyone who wasn't offended by proxy.
Sorry for being unclear. I'm not offended, either. But (see my reply to sibling comment) I find the arguments that the term can be seen as offensive, and that it perpetuates a (small! subtle! but real!) form of systemic racism, essentially plausible, and I'm sympathetic to them.