Students are also really fixated on being in the “right” year. I took a gap year. When I recommend other people take one, they sometimes respond that they don’t want to be behind by a year, either socially or academically. What they don’t understand is that being behind or ahead is a very arbitrary idea stemming from the structure of school. It doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things if you graduate a year later. Or if you learn a subject a year later than your peers