One Person Startup 5 to 10 million a year revenues.
online.wsj.com
online.wsj.com
How much is that bridge and where is it located?
1) It started out free when everybody else was charging something.
2) Social psychology, where people want to connect with other people, in communication, physical and emotional levels, so without restrictions it prospered.
He's being dishonest here, but if that journalist was worth anything they'd have discovered he's an SEO guy:
http://plentyoffish.wordpress.com/2006/06/14/how-i-started-an-empire/
So, you object to his SEO work. Why is SEO any different than opening up a restaurant at a particularly busy intersection? Seriously, I'm curious why SEO is not the coolest way to build a product.
plentyoffish.com created something new and valuable. A free, simple, website, for online dating. It's not fancy, it's ugly, but it looks like it just works on tons of browsers.
I agree, spam systems piss me off. However, I read plentyoffish.com's founder's posts on some SEO boards, and basically they give him good advice to make his product all around better. Ethical SEO sites basically say, if you have a good site, people will write articles about and increase your pagerank. So, it seems to me, SEO can be done ethically.
1) Making sure search engines can find and understand all of your pages. 2) Making sure that people want to visit your site when your pages show up on SERPs. 3) Making sure that LOTS of people link to you and talk about you online (the PlentyofFish guy has nailed this). 4) Assorted markup tricks that help people find your site better. 5) Understanding what people are googling for when they are looking for products/services like you provide.
If you think dissing SEO is taking the high road-- you're half right. There are "black-hat" tricks that you should avoid. But throwing out SEO as "meaningless if you have a great product" isn't taking the high road. It's taking the stupid road.
A forum post of his asking about how to do this is archived on the net somewhere.
... not that I've never done anything greyhat either.