Your fun and joy definition might not meet the definition of others. I for example do not enjoy metoo comments. If you do, you are likely a minority.
How is that talking around?
I literally told you where your fallacy resides in your words. Then, I labeled the exact fallacy, providing two common names for the fallacy. Finally, I provided a simplistic rephrasing of the fallacy to help with your identification. What else do you need?