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Comment by armandososa | Hacker News Reader

You are trying too hard.

Ok, your personality and self is such that just by acting naturally women are attracted to you. Congratulations, you get yours, Jack. It just isn't so with me. I have one personality with everyone, women, men, pets, kids, who-fucking-ever. I don't even raise my pulse much meeting women anymore because I'm so hardened to romantic rejection, and I know the pained looks they get when they realize they aren't attracted to me and can't quite figure out why.

you only posted on the internet so you could reject all theories other than "life is unfair to me"...go see a therapist because you obviously have personality issues...oh wait I can already hear the cued up excuse why you don't need to actually do anything to improve yourself, well just go fuck yourself then faggot

Whether or not I'm a gay hermaphrodite, I was responding to a post about advice to young people, and saying what I wish I knew as a young person was relevant.

In my case, this would have been to ignore pretentious fuckwads who say how difficult life is. It's easy. The hard part (for me, not necessarily you) is impressing women, and it's also the single largest thing affecting long term happiness. Perhaps there are some young people (not all) who would benefit from hearing this, because you don't hear it very much.

Have you thought about studying these skills?

http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2010/11/21/bill-clinton...

Hacking awkwardness away.

That's not very helpful, Socrates.

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