This isn't a problem with the game. This is a problem you are having with games in general.

I have it too, and it's a consequence of growing up and/or having more responsibilities.

I can either play Factorio, or I can spend time with my kids. Factorio, which I love, loses every time.

The only games I play now are ones I can play with my kids. ... so I set my daughter up with Starcraft 2 and am teaching her about strategy while still scratching that gaming itch.

My dream is to have a multiplayer LAN based VR Elder Scrolls game to play at home with the family.