Can you provide recent examples?
On their front page right now:
- A post about finishing shampoo and conditioner at the same time
- Celebration of a black female CEO
- Discussion of abortion
- Discussion of Women's only gyms (pros/cons/benefits/etc)
- Discussion about marketing vis-a-vis unhealthy body image
- Inappropriate boss in a meeting
None of those posts are even about men, let alone "hate speech against half the species?" So the emphasis is definitely on you to show that this is a popular usage of the sub.
Subs don't get removed for a scattering of hateful comments, the moderators are expected to deal with those. Subs get banned because their popular purpose is against Reddit's rules or their moderators are unable/unwilling to enforce the rules.