Anecdotal stories shouldn't be counted either way, but I've seen far more studies that show the deficiency of Vitamin D3 than overdose.
Here's some data: https://www.medscape.com/answers/819426-102375/what-is-the-p...
It's very, very rare. It can happen, but this is a gross misrepresentation of data.
Ask a doctor and do research about taking high dosage on the winter months (when you have less exposition to the sun) and no dosage at all the rest of the year.
Some have varying absorption of and resistance to vitamin D based on genetics. Labs provide a much more usable picture.
Bump to 300-500 IU/kg if you want to try something therapeutic. Cut calcium to 500-600 mg (getting more magnesium than phosphorus; at least 2x as much compared to calcium) if doing so.
Add melatonin and/or ZMA if sleep not as good.