Both the Prius[1] and the Model 3[2] had similar software bugs related to their anti-lock brakes. Both companies had a software fix a few days after the bugs were discovered. Tesla's fix was pushed out immediately to every vehicle. Toyota couldn't push out a fix. They had to issue a recall and have a technician update the software whenever that car ended up being serviced. How many months or more likely years did it take for every Prius to be updated with the software? How many miles were driven in cars that were known to have faulty brake software because it was hard to update them? You have to consider situations like this when discuss banning remote updating.
[1] - https://www.networkworld.com/article/2245704/toyota-to-recal...
[2] - https://www.wired.com/story/tesla-model3-braking-software-up...