The comparison between tethers and an aircraft carrier catch cable seems particularly apt. Thanks you. And yes, most times, you can initiate a go around if you fail a carrier landing. Not really an option with an orbital tether. Some sort of cable pair with a targeted coupler would probably work, each side with a heat emitter an heat seeker RCS system. Obviously, there would need to be slack in the system, (nearly local) winches a ways up-cable in the system, may be an answer.