I pay for a personal subscription to the JetBrains suite, use IntelliJ and PyCharm all day, and have also used Visual Studio all day in the recent past. The combination of modern IDEs with modern hardware is pretty awesome. My use of Emacs fluctuates depending on the job, language, environment, etc. but I've mostly used it for Org mode and a scratch pad since I signed up for JetBrains.
That said, I tried Nova from Panic (https://nova.app/) the other day, and the native app performance makes a noticeable difference. I know it's doing less, but I can still search the codebase quickly and the resource use is like 10% of other IDEs.