Is that not the entire point of society? I sacrifice some of my independence so that I can enjoy the infrastructure of civilization? None of us are an island.
I don't think the entire point of society is to force people to participate in your choice program under threat of jailing
people who don't share your (presumably) anti-state views probably think this is basically what government is.
if you rephrased to something like "government action ought to be the last resort for solving the problems of a community", I could agree with you.