>Technological improvement can both reduce the demand for labor and increase GDP. If there is no reason for demand for labor to increase, wages won't rise.
That's a political statement, not a law of nature. Bundled up in there are a large number of assumptions about how an economy works, how taxation works, what the purpose of a society (or even just technological advancement) really is.
I appreciate that for a lot (most?) people in the USA today, your beliefs about this are the common ones, and they seem self-evident and obviously true. But they are just one choice among many.
If you can't appreciate the difference that every single full time worker making $72k/year would make over the current situation (median of $62k/yr, up dramatically from just a couple of years ago when it was $53k), then I don't think I can help you. Moving the mean of a distribution to "less than 20% higher" than the median is huge!