For example, if you buy "example.com", just set your public DNS (assuming your registrar provides one) to resolv it to 127.0.0.1, then add your internal hostnames and IP addresses to your internal DNS. If you do it that way, "my-server.example.com" will simply fail to resolve unless you're on your internal network and you don't have to worry about any issues with using the reserved *.internal domain.