The following numbers are from several month old seroprevalence studies so take them with a grain of salt but:
https://www.ryankemper.io/post/2020-04-29-the_case_for_endin...
Pegs the 50-59 age range around the median IFR. Whereas the >70 mortality is where things really start falling off of a cliff.
BTW my point was never “your chance of dying in a car crash is >= COVID”...although that statement would be very true for <40 age populations. My point was more broadly that people have a risk aversion to COVID that is unmatched by their attitudes towards risk in all other areas of life.