Are you happy to be alive, knowing that untold ancestors lived comparatively short and brutish lives
I was questioning your assertion that centuries of "terrible lives" (which, to me, seems a regression for most) would be an acceptable price to pay for "better times" later on. Compared to the past 1000 years where life has, in the main, improved gradually generation after generation, I feel this assertion at least deserves to be questioned.
*But no not necessarily, but at the same time I had a lack of autonomy in regards to those decision made.