I tried my best to be a supporting lead, everywhere i was in that role. I believe in leading by example, but i recognize the necessity to _let_ people do things themselves and not just hog power because "i know best". Let people implement imperfect designs. They'll own it, learn, and fix them in time. Your job is to lead, to give direction and not let total crap be put into prod, not keep people under your "benevolent dictator" heel.