The point isn't that bridges never fall down. The point is that engineers who build bridges know that it's their responsibility to do everything in their power to make sure it doesn't, even if no-one else around them seems to care about that, or specifically asked for it. That they should walk away from a project rather than sign off on one where they will not have the resources or support to do a competent job.
That said, all bridges have design specifications and limits. If someone drives a convoy of trucks carrying gold bullion over a bridge and exceeds its design max weight by a factor of 10, and it doesn't hold up, that's not the engineer's fault. If a bridge is designed for a geologically active area and is designed to withstand a quake 10x more powerful than the strongest that's ever been recorded in the area, or is predicted by seismologists, and the area gets hit by a 100x quake, that's not the engineer's fault.
And if a bridge designed to last say, 5 years, is neither re-certified for use, or just closed, when its intended lifespan is up then that's not the engineer's fault either.
But the engineer is responsible for finding out what the likely max load of a bridge will be, or how powerful the strongest quake will be, or how long its intended lifespan is - and for adding in safety margins on top of that. They can't just assume that any new bridge will only be needed for 5 years, just because that no-one told them that it will be needed for longer, and then claim "well, it was only temporary" afterwards.