Against Redeeming Catastrophe: In Memory of Ruth Klüger
jhiblog.org
jhiblog.org
An amazing quote -- italics mine. Article is worth the read.
This article was the first time I ever encountered the view that it is impertinent to ask the survivors of a tragedy to forgive because people generally want redemption and positivity. It also makes sense to me that as a society, we expect too much from survivors of tragedies; we expect them to be more moral but they have every reason to be less so.