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I have had success with this strategy as well. The more time they spend on tinder the more chances they will match with someone more attractive than you and lose interest. The goal is to get a direct line as soon as you can and chat through that (text, IG, WhatsApp, etc)

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It's a numbers game (or at least I can treat it that way), they follow my funnel or they get lost, I don't think twice about it.

It's like 6 messages to text and then another 6 on text/whatsapp to figure out if the logistics for a date will work.

Maybe 15-20% actually make it to a date from a number in tinder but it requires the least investment on my part.

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