Whenever anyone says "no, the problem is completely with the other guy", usually they are the ones with the problem. Did you notice how many insults you hurled at the author? And what is his offense exactly? Writing something you happen to disagree with?

Ask yourself this: could it be that some people on your team, on some days when they are frustrated, sleep deprived, and stuck on a problem feel like this guy? Do you think they would be comfortable discussing this with you given how you react?