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I'm with you. But I do know guys who Do care. They aren't All gay, and some of them look very good.

In fact one fellow, Josh, never wore a single company clothing giveaway in the entire time I worked with him. We even got leather jackets after one release, and he gave it away! No logo, stylish, just not his style.

I don't think he spent any inordinate amount of time on it, he just had opinions.

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Oh, I know there are guys who are into clothing and hair and all of that, just as much as there are guys who only wear one color of clothing (so everything always matches!) and usually take a trusted female along to make sure they don't do anything too stupid.

But that is a case where someone has chosen to care. If you have an interest in something, it's completely different than someone volunteering their opinion that you suck at it and need someone to do it the right way for you. Especially if it is of no interest to you or you're fine with your own choices, thank-you-very-much. What they're really saying is "let me help you, so that I'll stop judging you".

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