Should be easy – SMS it's the "default" messaging app from a phone, isn't it?
She knows that the green Whatsapp logo is for talking to her friends.
She probably wouldn't click the envelope looking thing.
(I'm not being facetious - IMO HN readers massively overestimate user capability.)
I remember I missed a few calls from my mom recently, and she asked me if I noticed her missed calls. I didn't have any missed calls as she was calling me through WhatsApp, but in such a way that she thought is the "regular" way of calling. I explained, now she knows. Not sure where this is going...