100 or so items over three years is a success story compared to any other social network.
You need trust in the messager. If this person has religious objections ignoring that is ignoring reality. The messager is the message
Comparing to other websites is meaningless and insensitive. We are not comparing performance statistics but broken lives.
Telling the judge that your neighbor is more criminal than you won't help you in any court case.
If someone emailed you some material should your emailbox, you or all email be taken away from society? The reality of user generated content being uploaded and breaking a sites tos is all too common.