I've come to terms with the fact that in most markets a home is not the best way to use your money in terms of return. However, you get to live in it and that's priceless. And like you said, it acts as a savings account over time and that generally works out as people will eventually downgrade after their kids have left.

Another nice thing about owning a home is you can improve it (additions, adding bathrooms, etc) and certain additions more or less pay for themselves in terms of "getting your money back" over enough time. Again, probably not going to outperform the market, but you get to live in it. So even if the market tanks for a few years, I still get the benefits of whatever I've invested in my home.

The trick is to not overspend on a home. Too many people use all their savings to make a downpayment and then use too much of their income to pay for it. This can not only get you in trouble but also puts you at a serious disadvantage in terms of accumulating wealth.