But if their problem is not being able to stomach the "just-because" explanations that every QM resigns to using to explain wtf complex conjugation has to do with reality, then I completely, totally sympathize. Learning QM consists of learning to silence your objections to the fact that none of the things you're being asked to believe make any sense.
It gets somewhat more scrutable when you deal with relativistic QM, where, at least, the terms in Schrodinger equation start to make intuitive sense (it's the first couple terms in the Taylor expansion of E psi = sqrt(p^2 + m^2) psi = m sqrt(p^2/m^2 + 1) psi = (m + 1/2 p^2/m)psi ), but then spinors enter the picture and all intuition goes out the window again.