The key difference is a government is decided by the people. n companies (let's be real, 2-4) have no accountability.
If you disagree with Apple removing something from an app store, you buy an Android compatible and enable side-loading, or you buy a Linux compatible phone, or if all else fails, you connect through a web site.
When I used Windows Phone, it was annoying that I couldn't download an app for my bank, inconvenient that I still had to use ATMs to deposit checks. And disappointing that I couldn't hop on the Snapchat bandwagon. But I was still able to communicate with friends and family, read the news, do research, learn things, and make use of the internet.
Allowing just a few companies enough control over the internet to take away your ability to choose how you use it is an antitrust issue.