In our case, the control plane data store really should be as boring as possible. It was real stretch using anything other than MySQL. We tried to lay out the arguments in the post, but the most compelling was we had lots of unit tests that spun up a DB and shut it down quickly. Maybe a hundred tests whose total execution time was 1.5s. The "boring" options made that surprisingly difficult.
(Tailscaler and blog post co-author)