Why are you writing the blog, again? If it's for accountability, great -- do it, but make it private. If it's public, you are going to spend too much time and effort working on it, when you should be working on paying clients.

Additionally, it's going to take more than 93 days to build a following on your blog. And I would doubt that you get very good advice from visitors, especially at first.

If you're main focus is to make $X per month to support your family, stop doing anything that doesn't make you money. Stop reading HN/reddit/cnn. Stop writing your blog. Stop asking for advice. If you cannot draw a line from what you are doing to profit, stop doing it and switch to making money.

Blogs are hugely narcissistic, which is only going to take your time away from making money. There are some great ones out there, but it sounds like you need to make money, not navel gaze.

I highly doubt that you will make any significant money off of your blog in 93 days. Or ever. You know where you will make money? By solving an existing problem for a business that increases their income. In exchange, they will give you money (so much better than the attention that blog visitors give you!)