If matrix.org were to see this level of influx of users, given their constant scaling problems, they would be down in minutes.
next you're going to tell me grandma should just use IRC instead.
I host my web, my email, my XMPP, my TURN/STUN, etc, so I gave Matrix a try. In short: it's horrible. It's insanely resource hungry, both synapse and dendrite, plus dendrite is so not finished it hurts.
Stick to XMPP until Matrix is in an actually usable shape when one doesn't need a small power reactor to run it.
About an hour ago.
> Cannot reach homeserver > Ensure you have a stable internet connection, or get in touch with the server admin
wise prediction of yours ;)