“If you calibrate the HDR screen to be as dim as the LDR screen they’ll look the same” isn’t a great argument.
I didn't say to turn down the brightness of the HDR screen. I said the brightness per area must match.
Using maximum brightness often harms color reproducibility too, by the way. So if you believe brighter = better, don't.
But that’s not what HDR is. 8bpc is definitely not enough to represent HDR Rec.2020 or DCI-P3 without significant banding.