Start working on your own alternative platform.

You, as a hacker, have a responsibility to your community, family, friends, to build an alternative platform for them.

If you refuse this responsibility, you are failing your own family and community, and leaving them to suffer all the consequences.

You can't realistically tell your family to quit Service X, no matter how fucking bad it is, unless you're willing to provide them with an alternative, hardware and all, including either a replicated experience or on-demand support.

If you can't build an alternative to Service X, you must start teaching yourself immediately until you are able to do it.

I'm just a messenger, don't blame me for the current reality.