Creeping as a Service
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Take Reddit. Besides the well-known archive sites that keep removed/deleted content (removeddit, ceddit, etc), there is this cool service (pushshift) that offers all that and more. One interesting and relevant feature of this tool is the ability to look up all content by a specific author/username. You just put the name there, and lo and behold, everything this person ever posted is right there; even if it's deleted, or removed.
If you do a quick test using this tool, you'll soon see the amount of people who thought their deleted content couldn't be tied back to them, continuing to use their usernames like nothing happened. The deleted content can sometimes be incredibly sensitive information that the person posted by mistake (or when looking for advice, having a rant about something, etc). It sometimes includes very specific details that may uniquely identify a person. And most users aren't aware of any of this. And it's available even if you delete your account. Someone just has to know that you used this username once upon a time.
The tool eventually removed this option from the UI (but it's still available through their API). The thread where this removal was announced is interesting and reveals how useful this tool was to some users on Reddit for combating spam/harassment (or even to find their own content), but nevertheless this dark side of it is there. As you might expect, someone slapped a new UI on that very tool, and that feature is readily available today, few google searches away.
When I saw this tool, it really reminded me of that. It's incredible how our online activities became permanent, no matter how much we try to erase the parts we don't like (or don't want to be public).
Even if you do change your username regularly, your patterns of speech may stay rather similar. And no matter what you say, the context around it may change in 30 years or so.
This new generation loves to screenshot personal conversations and then post them to Reddit for brownie points. Meaning if you get involved with someone who's slightly malicious, they can easily ruin your life too.
At this point I'm very careful to only meet folks in person. It's not unheard of for people to share compromising details about themselves, only to become extortion victims.
However, there’s a really easy way to not worry about this: don’t be mean/rude to other people publicly, and think about what you say before writing it down.
It’s also hard to be “compromised” if you really own who you are. Embarrassing things about yourself are only embarrassing if you’re embarrassed about them.
Obviously, people have interests and fetishes they’d rather not be made public. Maybe they’d like to interact with those communities online and remain anonymous. I don’t have an easy answer for that - an alt account might not be enough.
Still, for many social media sites it really is in some ways the same standard as written letters. Don’t write things that you’re worried about being read and attributed to you in the future.
Security by obscurity many apply: if in 2050 everyone everyone has 30-40 years of social media data under their belt, it strikes my as unlikely that anybody’s going to care about the one thing you said 30 years ago, a needle in quite an enormous haystack.
After all, you aren’t a historical figure.
Plus I really think people should be able to mature, just because you said something really mean when you were 19, doesn't mean at 39 you're a horrible person. In fact just because you said something really mean at 19, doesn't mean you're a horrible person at 19. But instead of it being a one-off comment at a party, it's now a part of you. I really think this is why so many young adults get so stressed out over social media, you constantly need to create this artificial image of some superhuman who's living a fantastic amazing life. Any misstep you'll lose fans,followers, etc. This makes so many people so miserable.
I know I became much happier after I got rid of my social media, but again to each their own.
Rereading my blog entries from 15 years ago, I wouldn't write the same things today, but if someone points at a 2006 blog entry to say something about 2021 me I also expect people won't take them especially seriously.
I suspect such claims will come off as very hollow to most people who have become upset with you. You would probably be questioned about why you had not proactively removed and apologized for your old writings on your own, as soon as you "changed your mind" about the topic. This of course ignores that changes are often slow, and rather unlikely to prompt you to recall every single trace you may have left of your previous thoughts. But that's all squishy context that the internet has thoroughly shown it does not care for, nor even recognize most of the time.
I do think it might be different if my entire online presence consisted of a handful of posts written a long time ago, but anyone trying to get a sense of me from my writing can tell very quickly that I have a lot of views about a lot of different things.
It also seems to be very asymmetric, in that the ones most likely to attack are the ones with the least history. It's an asymmetric tool younger folks can use against older folks, and that asymmetry will always exist.
Your view seems quite naive to me. Not only do times change, with previously acceptable things becoming unspeakable (eg. "retarded", "transsexual", "transvestite"), but with taking out of context and selective quoting you can distort the meaning of almost anything.
They really leaned on the idea that you can get away with insensitive humor as long as it’s delivered by the crass idiot of the show (generally Gob)
easy for you to say
This is obviously good advice, but the rest of your comment basically amounts to rephrasing "there is nothing to be afraid of if you have nothing to hide". The problem is that often times people don't have a choice about what they are forced to hide.
For example, one's sexuality is often something that needs to be hidden. It isn't just that some fetishes are embarrassing. Some orientations in some jurisdictions are illegal or not legally protected. It was just a few months ago that the US Supreme Court ruled that you can't fire people for being gay for example. And that is just the legal repercussions. There are all sorts of social, religious, and familial circles that will react negatively to a person's true self that might force that person to hide a part of their life.
Ideally we get to a place in the future when this isn't true. However it is true today and failing to recognize it is either of sign of naivety, privilege, or a lack of empathy.
This is to say nothing of the (however unfathomable) possibility of the country taking a 180 and walking this back.
Here are several maps[1] of the US that show the states and counties where it is legal to discriminate against LGBT people in housing, education, healthcare, public accommodations and whether or not hate crimes against them are recognized by the governments as hate crimes.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_the_United_Stat...
You know the Gibson quote "The future is already here, it's just not evenly distributed"? The corollary is that the present isn't evenly distributed either. The past often lingers well past it's sell-by date.
So even if/when we get to such a place, I don't think the problem will actually go away for a long time, if ever.
Consider that the US is more than two generations past the 1964 civil rights act, and that while, as a country, the US recently elected and even reelected a Black president, there has subsequently been a significant reactionary backlash, to put it mildly, that is still ongoing.
I wouldn't usually do this, but since you're arguing it's okay...
Here's you belittling someone: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25349593
Here's you discovering that text doesn't always convey the tone you wanted: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=24518501
Here's you being rude: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25055238
If you don't think these comments reflect badly on you, wait until the online mob has had a few hours to get angry and then try explaining. Remember that anyone going after you can take comments out of context, add commentary to twist the perspective, and pull comments from arbitrarily far into the past (extra useful if you've ever changed your mind).
None of them is "mean/rude". Perhaps not watered-down to the modern PC norms, but they are perfectly fine and would've not been out of place in an in-person conversation.
You appear to be mistaking expressing an opinion for showing a disrespect or trying to offend someone. That's a slippery slope.
When the UX is deliberately designed to make is seem more like a free flowing discussion in a bar, the responsibility is no longer sorely with the user.
You would be horrified at how easy it to recover supposedly-deleted content from most imageboards.
This is so true. There was some guy on a career advice subreddit complaining that he wasn't getting any job offers. As more and more details came out, the guy became combative and refused to take any ownership of his own flaws.
He eventually made a new account, but he couldn't help himself and began making the same complaints and in much the same manner.
Most countries have some version of this protection, so your legal advice to your daughters is probably incorrect.
Not everyone is raised by good people. Thankfully I had a seismic event (Perma banned from a favorite game after sinking 1000s of hours for being offensive) correct my behavior. I thank my lucky stars it was merely me being banned from a video game that caused me to reconsider how I act, and not something much more serious.
I also think "expelled from society" is a touch dramatic. As best I can tell, not a single famous racist has starved to death, or even been forced back to subsistence agriculture. I think the most extreme penalty I've seen is having to change jobs/industries, or perhaps losing some friends.
For most of us, losing your career and all or almost all your friends is kind of a big deal.
People have committed suicide over this.
Try applying your standards to things you believe in some time. "He says he was a victim of racist discrimination? Well, he still seems to be alive and fed, and has stable employment at Walmart. So that's a touch dramatic."
I agree that the social penalties for racism can be serious. Although I look forward to you naming 3 people who because of teenage postings lost their "career and all or almost all [their] friends", because again I think you're being hyperbolic in a way that undermines your point.
However, I also think that racism is serious. Perhaps this seems crazy to you, but I'm much more concerned with the many lives destroyed by racism (very much including actual murder) than I am with the social consequences racists (very rarely) experience.
Demanding evidence of ruined lives for 'teenage postings' is again, an arbitary limitation that doesn't make sense given that we are talking about things that will be happening in the future, not things that happened in the past. We need to wait for social mores to change enough since teenage postings even started existing around 10-15 years ago.
However despite you deliberately trying to set a standard that makes no sense given the topic, I Googled for 5 minutes and satisfied it anyway:
Teenage girl killed herself amid fears she would be branded racist over joke photo she sent friends, inquest hears
[0] https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/08/28/teenage-girl-kil...
White teen who posted racist video of black HS classmate eating chicken could face criminal charges
[1] https://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/white-teen-made-ra...
Teen commits suicide after cyberbullies share explicit messages outing him as bisexual
[2] https://www.aol.com/article/news/2019/10/01/teen-commits-sui...
Two of these kids actually died, which I think is even more than losing their "career and all or almost all [their] friends".
Nobody is arguing for racism. What you're wrong about is the poo-poohing the threat that the combination of shifting social mores, eternally-recorded online remarks, and vindicitive power create.
Implicitly you seem to be suggesting that it's okay if some 'racists' have their lives ruined, since the cause is so just and important. Looking at the stories of these kids above dying - do those stories make you think anything different?
Are they acceptable losses, or did they deserve it? Or is there a problem here to fix?
You probably think of yourself as an empathetic person. So try expanding your empathy to more people.
Perhaps you've had the privilege of always believing only things that align 100% with the views of the powerful. You seem to be a wealthy San Francisco leftist, so I can see how you would live under the basic belief that "if power is suppressing it, it must be bad".
Perhaps you think there is a clean simple line between Good People and Those Evil Nazis Who Deserve What They Get. There is not. Humans are complex.
However, try to conceive that someone could be both dissident and not-evil at the same time. If you need to, you can imagine living in another society where the power actually disagrees with you. What then?
And please recognize that your orthodoxy may change. Maybe you'll change your views, or society will. Then you'll be the "racist", or "Nazi", or "communist", or "kaffir", or "heretic", or "reactionary", or whatever label they're using in 30 years.
Of course, given that you've decided to spend multiple paragraphs in a personal fantasy building a very poor straw man of me and my views, I think that a good discussion is not really your goal here.
Yes you are. I said "serious" and you yourself specifically pulled it back to the literal interpretation of "expelled from society". Another poster used those words casually; you're the one who decided that their literal intepretation was the "standard".
On the rest, this just feels like you're pointing at my tone as an excuse to avoid acknowledging or engaging any of the questions I brought up.
I said "Perhaps you believe X". This isn't building a strawman, it's trying to get to the heart of the beliefs underlying the issue. If you believe something totally different than X it'd be great if you would explain it.
A good discussion is my goal. Is it yours? You smugly tried to shut me down with a demand for news stories that you thought couldn't be satisfied. And now you're refusing to talk - with the excuse that you don't think I want to talk.
In any case, I'd welcome a meaningful response that actually addresses my points and the larger discussion.
Bottom line: You seem to think that it's only very rarely that a few terrible racists get socially punished this way, implying you think the situation is okay. I showed you that it's not, it's kids and normal people, and people are dying. What's your reponse to this new information?
Please stop posting links to them because they're often inaccurate, sometimes deliberately so.
https://au.news.yahoo.com/uk-teenager-phoebe-connop-hanged-h...
https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/school...
that's not a problem with you, but with cancel culture in general.
The use of highly selective and unsubstantiated accusations of anti-Semitism is becoming a problem, but not in this case.
How many youtube subscribers did he have at the point he posted it?
He subsequently turned it into an "edgy" comedy career, career in politics, and ~1m youtube subscribers across his various channels. Pretty good return on investment.
> spread a few Hitlery catch phrases for some reason
This not an argument in his favor.
I looked it up. He had all of 400 subscribers when the video was uploaded. He clearly wasn't trying to leverage his massive youtube fanbase at the time. His girlfriend testified in court that her boyfriend wasn't racist. They were both caught off guard by the video's popularity and the response it got from authorities.
She said "I know what kind of person he is. It is just not a very nice thing to say obviously. I didn't think about it being anything other than him annoying me, I didn't think it would have the effect that it did."
> He subsequently turned it into an "edgy" comedy career, career in politics, and ~1m youtube subscribers across his various channels. Pretty good return on investment.
I mean, on one hand he's got more youtube subscribers than ever, but on the other he lost his job and will struggle to get hired for the rest of his life because people will assume he's a racist because of a joke... I'm not sure I'd call that a win exactly, but I can't blame him from trying to make the best of the situation any way that he can. He seems genuinely interested in fighting against what happened to him so that it doesn't happen to others.
> This not an argument in his favor.
That was your theory, although I still can't imagine what you thought the end goal there was. He goes through all that trouble to manufacture and promote a viral video with a couple seconds of hitler in it but for what exactly? If he were a secret nazi and this was all some kind of master plan what is the pay off here?
If you're really without any evidence that the video wasn't just a joke that people took too seriously, why have you accused him of being a racist with a nefarious plan? What kind of evidence do you think a person should have before they make a claim like that about another person?
That one "joke" you made when you were sixteen might render you unemployable by 2040. People evolve, and their earlier marks on earth vanish. Before social media even the worst could re-make themselves into something better, now even the best have their worst moments permanently recorded.
Usually called parallel construction: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parallel_construction
An example: a young person paints his face in black before going to a party. Decades later, black face is a thing and people find out about that party and it's now a shit show for the guy that is a prime minister of a country. There's no legal prosecution, but cancelation is even harder to deal with.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brendan_Eich#Appointment_to_CE...
Post a few times and just with your text (no IP address or anything), I can pretty accurately determine who you are:
https://twitter.com/austingwalters/status/104189476543920128...
Depends on population size, but HN (for instance) is small enough.
Currently working on using similar tech to match would-be authors with the publishers that most commonly sign book deals in their style, plus a few other projects. Fun tech, but also lots of interesting potential!
[1] https://www.quora.com/How-vulnerable-are-Quora-answers-to-au...
Traditionally, threads and posts are ephemeral: old ones get deleted as new ones are created. There are automatic archiving services out there though.
jk
Forgettability certainly isn't something we have in day to day interactions with those around us, our friends, coworkers, nor our neighbors. We tend to pay dearly in our local social circles for the sort of behavior that we tempt ourselves with online. People just stop spending time with us when we can't get along. You have skin in the game.
If there's something different about the internet, it's that it compels so many of us to say regretful things that we want to delete.
> It's incredible how our online activities became permanent, no matter how much we try to erase the parts we don't like
I'm having the opposite realization lately. This tech trope of permanence isn't actually happening.
For instance, I used to be able to search some of my unique internet/gaming aliases 15 years ago and get thousands of results as I was a big forum poster back then and those hits showed up. Now I get three hits across the whole internet. Things die and nobody saves it. Why would they?
Then you look at Archive.org, the main presence I can think of that's aiming for long term records, and they have breadth, like website homepages going back weekly for a decade, but they rarely have evidence of that controversial deleted tweet from a week ago. Quickly, all people have are screenshots and then it fizzles out.
Finally, to my eyes, the only issue with permanence of things we've said in the past, if it exists, isn't with the permanence itself but because modern culture gives very few of us a way back from something unsavory (by someone's standard) that we once uttered.
What is new are the giant companies that profit greatly from encouraging users to deanonymize themselves and post compromising details on the internet, so those details can be mined and used for targeted advertising. I look at the adults who, just two decades ago, warned each other about what they put on the internet, and they're now on Facebook leaking nearly every detail about themselves and their private lives to the internet.
Also this sure is a stealth ad and a half for Spoonbill.
We "learn" that Elon Musk is indeed self-centered and image-obsessed. Big deal, I'm sure he hopes that you think so, and you already knew so before reading this. Anyone whose net worth is tied to their public image and fandom is almost certainly the same. It's also not clear how much of those changes are actually his personality and how much are simply consistent with his public persona. A delta between the two would be interesting but almost by definition impossible to determine from this info.
Don't get me wrong: I'm sure there is a fascinating PhD or two to be found in this info. But for any ordinary person (including journalists or TMZ employee) are there any real, insightful nuggets in what is explicitly the process of curation?
There’s an entire meme economy built on top of things like the batchelor. None of those people are even noteworthy.
People really really care.
I really meant the ephemera of autographical edits. It seemed as relevant as collecting used cocktail napkins of celebrities.
A parallel comment to yours suggests its fodder for "gotcha" posts. I guess that makes sense for those who like that, so does answer, a little, my "who cares" question.
It's an untestable hypothesis, but I've always wondered if anyone would care about Elon Musk if he never got hairplugs.
https://pagesix.com/2018/07/25/its-highly-likely-elon-musk-s...
I just can't imagine him developing a cult personality without it. I think people would think of him more like Ballmer - just kinda crazy.
Almost all male celebs have had work done. Same with many older sports and business people, such as Mark Cuban.
Combined with photo alteration, very few look as they would if they aged "normally".
For stalkers, I bet there's plenty of demand.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=24627363
You already have to think about everything you do online. Now you have to think about something you do even if it’s posted for a second. Some service is going to monitor it or one of the archive crusades will snap it up. This was already a concern, but now it’s more apparent. Now we have enterprise level employee monitoring for the internet.
None of this is new. It’s just getting worse. I fear for our future generations where they are discovering themselves and happen to post something online over their life journey and it’s immediately snapped up to be used against them later in life. We’ve been talking about this for years. What a shame we’re at this point. One day there will be a revolt to the internet. It will take a while, but it will happen.
Hence, Budgie Smuggler.
Not affiliated, I just think it is a laugh.
Unfortunately the web is open and there's nothing really to stop it, sans regulations and trust that they will be enforced. Once your life is on the internet you might as well assume everything you say or do is being tracked in some version control repository for humans.
If I'm wrong about the existence of private profiles, then the problem isn't this service. The problem would be publishing information publicly that they wish to remain private.
Of course you and I know better, but I don't think most people know their digital lives are so easily tracked and sold.
As a joke - let me emphasise: AS A JOKE (we'll get to this in a minute) - I seriously considered (aware of the irony) registering stalk.ly as a domain name with Libyan Spider and using it to host a site that billed itself as an online private investigation agency with the tagline, "We'll find out what you need to know... for a price." The whole thing was overall going to look as shady as reasonably possible.
You'd be able to find out exactly what you'd been up to and where you'd been based on your social media posts, with a timeline, map view, etc. There'd be a sign-up option that would offer you the ability to do the same for your "friends".
Worried your partner has been having an affair? No problem: slap their profile URL in here and we'll tell you exactly what they've been up to and where they've been up to it, etc. Want to know what your kids or employees have been up to? We've got that covered too. Oh yeah.
The point was to highlight how much oversharing most of us do online, and how unaware we all often are of how much information about our lives we're really giving away. Also I was more than a bit curious about how many people would actually try to sign up, and I thought it might be funny.
Fortunately (I think, although I still wonder sometimes) my tendency to laziness kicked in and I never actually implemented it. I was also a bit concerned about the possibility of unintended consequences that could be personally detrimental. I have no doubt Facebook et all would have gone ber-effin-zerk once they'd spotted the app, but that wasn't my major concern - I was more worried about the reaction of friends, and my employer, if by some chance it had gained some traction.
The ideal outcome would have been for it to provide a certain amount of entertainment for a while, and possibly drawn some small attention to issues of privacy that - prior to that point - had very much been minority concerns. Still, I was quite worried about it backfiring.
Maybe let them check, offer a redacted or scrambled/fictionalised history, and then let their target know a week or two later.
Otherwise I think it would have been shut down really quickly. You really want the thing to build up a head of steam before the sky falls if at all possible.
The reason why HN'ers are not always kind to other HN'ers is, because HN is nothing more and nothing less than social media, albeit at its finest.
As a serial edit-until-finally-satisfied poster, I suppose it's nice to know that those edits are taking up terabytes of data in such systems. :)
Was the information always public? Yes. But the difficulty in accessing it meant that only the most obsessive stalker would find their way back to it.
Making difficult-to-access public information extremely easy to access is type of privacy change.
Back in the AOL Instant Messenger days of the early 2000's there was a service like this that tracked users' "Away Messages". People definitely tweaked those repeatedly as well :)
Would anyone pay to see this information tracked? Maybe journalists?
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Cases like this illustrate how electronic information is perception tech that has scaled human abilities much further than the printing press did, but with incorrect abstractions that have compounded over time, at the expense of our relationships...
We can’t stop human culture from evolving, but we would do well to measure more of where we’re headed. The best related examples off the top of my head is how debates via democracy were had at some point as we decided how juvenile criminal records work
Related, sonder is significant because it is a rare feeling
https://www.dictionaryofobscuresorrows.com/post/23536922667/...
The LinkedIn analysis referred to in the article was really telling as well.
I've been thinking about this in terms of credit files recently. There are services that let you check it daily, but they don't provide a daily time series of the data - that's really where the value is and it's why they don't provide a consumer api.
https://developer.twitter.com/en/products/twitter-api/enterp...
Right next to the "Apply for enterprise access" button, there is a giant block of text saying "Our enterprise solutions are customized with predictable pricing".
Basically, they make money, because that API access isn't free. They don't list the actual price there because, as it is the case with most enterprise sales, there is no fixed pricing, and they work out individual deals on a case-by-case basis (which is based on the number of requests you expect your API to make per day/hour, volume discounts, long-term contract discounts, etc.).
Long story short, there is a price on it, but to find out what it is, you will have to apply. And the price you will get will probably not be representative of the price other people/enterprises get, but at least you will know what it will cost for your specific company/project.
PS: I only checked a couple or so.