This is just wrong. I'm growing increasingly frustrated at the number of users here on HN misquoting everything about patents. If you don't know or understand it, it's best not to comment. If this were something technical and you didn't really know the answer and answered as if you did, many people here would be up in arms. This is no different.
That said, while a patent term is calculated from the date of filing, a patentee has no rights until after the patent issues. So if the entity making threats against you has a patent which issues (which sounds like a big if), he can sue you, but only for your acts of infringement after the date the patent issues. Since the patent has not issued yet, he could not sue you for your actions between now and the issue date, only for actions post-issue because that is when that entity's rights begin.